Enough is Enough

 
When do you stop advocating and just walk away.    How stupid can people be?   Free advice never ask questions you don’t want answers for.  People will amaze you both positively and negatively.   God has a mischievous sense of humor so never ask how can this get any worse.  God will show you.   God also will show you the extreme good stuff if you let her.
I am in an advocacy situation that started a couple of months ago over something stupid.  It got out of hand  I went to HR for support, yeah right, got none.   After HR is only there for the company not for you.  Had to escalate outside my organization to get anywhere.   Anywhere turned out to be a small victory.
I have talked to many and have found no way to deescalate the situation or manage the issue.   I have to tell you there is a point where its pointless your better off elsewhere and they can’t hurt you anymore.  Or it doesn’t matter if they hurt you. I’m not sure which is worse.  Being it a situation so long you have to get away from it.   Or potentially worse a situation that is so bad it doesn’t hurt anymore.
Bullies or people with their self esteem problems are very dangerous indeed.   Trying to be honest upfront or clear is near impossible.   People with their selfish pride will fight and continue fighting if they are wrong or if there is another option or even if they forget what the issue was.  If someone is just stupid its best just to say have a nice life and never darken my door again.  If you have to leave or get a new job or change your situation just do it.
In the end it isn’t worth impacting your self esteem.  Or having you feel badly about yourself.   Worse your health.  Its just not worth it.  God fate the universe will deal with these people.   Remember stupid is as stupid does.   Walk away….
The situation at work will end soon and I will end up in a better place then my persecutors could ever achieve.   Remember the best revenge is to live and live well.